A lot of dudes scratch their heads at wondering whether or not they are indeed close to a certain girl. .... okay... probably not a lot of dudes. But I keep wondering... Until I had the audacity to read the Human Com notes that is! HAHA! What would we do without Human Com? ...
Anyway, I learned that you are close to someone if you both are "intimate." Intimacy is defined as familiar or simply put, "closeness" to someone. And Intimacy has some dimensions too! Yowza!
1) Physical
You are intimate with someone if you aren't afraid to hold or simply touch them. Nothing sexual, just a tap at the back or a simple high five. If there is a sense of awkwardness in the touching, then you need to get to know the person more and learn to be more comfortable with him/her.
2) Intellectual
If both of you have developed the same wavelength of humor, and sometimes the stupidest things turn out to be the funniest and most obvious, then you guys are indeed intimate! As long as you understand the person clearly and aren't afraid to rebut him/her, consider yourselves close.
3) Emotional
This works out only if both of you shared your own personal feelings and actually relate to them. One does not share his/her personal feelings to someone unless he/she is comfortable with the other person.
4) Shared Activities
If both of you enjoy what you are doing such as reading, playing guitar, writing, playing chess, dancing, and maybe even studying Human Com, and feel this certain correlation, then you are indeed intimate. Humans are relational beings and we all (sometimes) need a certain someone to
have some fun.
YEY! I can sleep now! Peace and Love :)>-
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