Sunday, February 22

Fantasizing Relationships

Most of us want to find the perfect person for us, "our life partner, our one coquette, the answer to our love's duet" (enchanted ü) ... in other words MR. RIGHT or MRS. RIGHT ♥. But the question is...is there really a perfect person for us?

Some say a relationship could start and grow from being friends or best of friends...like the lyrics from the song "lucky" by Jason Mraz and Colbie Cailat "lucky i'm in love with my best friend" :) anyway... we can't really say a person is really perfect for us. ..maybe from the start of the relationship, she/he could be your dream girl or guy but when the relationship starts to get long.. you'll know his or her true color especially when you're in the "maintaining relationship stage" you'll say "She's a nightmare!!!" or "He's not THE one!!!".

Some people get attracted with just a physical touch... some would even say " i felt the spark between us!" eventhough it's just their fingers that accidentally bumped to each other. :|

Some would get attracted by intellect or by the way one thinks. This applies when a person sounds smart for you or if anything he says makes any sense. BUT if he sounds different...or the way he reason out or speak is just A BIG blur to you then screw him... find another one!:)


Some would be attracted emotionally... of what he/she feels... but is it love? or just merely an infatuation?

lastely, some get attracted by their "common activity". People tend to get closer because of the same thing they're doing. like playing guitar together... having the same class with each other etc... :) (yeah!:) )

[[ but for SOME... ALL they do is FORCE other people just to be in a relationship with them! (well that's HARSH! right?), they would even crack the lamest / corny ice-breaker line or a pick-up line just to initiate a conversation... While others are just plain stubborn/ hard headed that keeps on pushing what they want.]]

anyway...In my opinion, a perfect someone doesnt exist... its all a fantasy or a wishful thinking for everyone to have hope or expect that someone "perfect" exist:)



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